1) I've waited 3 months now without setting up any other account or relisting anything at all on my account and the VERO email has dropped off the radar on my inbox so should i start listing again on the same account? How many VERO strikes before I'm out?
You can't compete with VeRO's, you'll eventually be suspended permanently if you continue selling.
2) If i list with the same title am i going to get hit with an instant VERO? Are accounts monitored that have had a VERO on them for a relisting of same item? Fortunatley my item is not one that would have a third party constantly bothered or on the look out for any such listings to contact ebay when they appear it was just by chance i got VERO'd.
If that's the case, then it wouldn't matter. It could help that you change the title, but if they're not looking for you, then what's the point.
3) Should i change the auction listing? I was thinking instead of text having a picture alone as my main auction listing which i can resize and rename and rehost on a different site everytime i setup an auction. Therefore they cannot scan the text (if they do that) on my listing if its just a picture, the name, size and location of which will be changing between auctions so they have nothing other than title to get me on.
The only problem with that is, eBay doesn't allow image only auctions. You'll have to have some text in there.
4) All problems seem to stem from getting suspended.(which i haven't got yet) If i play safe and just move on when i get a VERO on an ebay account and ditch it for another one can i use the same paypal email address with each of these new ebay accounts to collect payments? I.E. If i set up a new ebay account and after a month building up the feedback start selling at which point i add my old pay pal email address as the payment method (but not linked) to an account which had an item which was VERO'd but wasn't itself suspended am i going to get VERO'd or suspended in this new ebay account?
You'll need to add a different email to your Paypal account and use that for your eBay account if you go this route. If you use the same email used on your other account, you'll be linked.
5) Will i probably get suspended rather than VERO'd on a newer account? If i build my new account up over a month buying stuff (tangiable stuff) and with a perfect feedback rating then list 1 item becuase my account is only a month old will i probably get suspended rather than VERO'd or will VERO still come first if i do look like a genuine newbie account listing something i shouldn't?
Probably VERO first. | 
