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Alright now I haven't done this myself, just yet.

I got this guy who left me negative on a newish account that I spent ALOT of time working on. I did get the negative removed, after the 4th rep I talked to.


The guy after buying it immediately sent me a message "when are you shipping this"? I replied back thinking okay hes impatient w/e...

Well he then gets the item and then says I lied about the listing blah blah blah.
I respond to him via ebay message and ask why would you give me a negative, did I offend you etc. etc.

He replies back almost instantly which kinda leads me to believe he just is one of those negative human beings that wants to spread the negativity to whomever he is contact with. He keeps messaging me but I won't respond to him because I know he just wants to argue which is pointless. I did block him but as we all know once a message is started they can always still message even when blocked.



Now hes only about 1 1/2 hour away from where I live. I'm VERY tempted to take a bus out to his home and just confront him and see what happens. I know we ALL have had this fantasy in one way or another..

He made me waste 3 hours out of my day and it would be VERY rewarding to see him coward in front of me if I do this.

Has ANYONE ever done this?

I don't have intentions to have anything become physical, I just would like to have man to man conversation ....without a computer to hide behind
Yes I've confronted a seller the other way around at a Flea Market and got some money back it's not over yet with this guy. I told him straight up I'm going to put you out of business. I also took the red Ice drink I was drinking and posted it on his table ruining all the phake polos he was selling
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Yea I mean I don't know YET if this guy that just bought my other item is linked with the freak buyer BUT if he is I will ruin his account.

I don't even need to see him in person if its the same person. He has a 99' account and I WILL get him banned or make it very hard to keep selling... its really not that hard.

My stealths go deep.

He has NO IDEA what hes getting himself into if he thinks he can buy two of my items and give me another negative because I removed his first one.
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Wow solefoodbk...for 1 guy... Principle I understand but profit margin...
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If he try's to ruin my account I will ruin his before mine, yes.
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Default Re: Confronting a buyer in person, The Ebay Fantasy.

Man look. Go to his house at night, and smash his car windows with the little white part from a spark plug. Instant quite shadder. And leave an ebay sticker on the hood or something so he knows it was you! Hahahaha

IM ONLY KIDDING DUDE. Just forget about the guy. More money to be made
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You can always go to his/her house and throw a Molotov cocktail at the house/car.

Do it at night and go in skates or bike so no one will see the plates.
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This thread is slowly escalating lol
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Default Re: Confronting a buyer in person, The Ebay Fantasy.

There will always be competitors out there in the world as long as it involves money to be made. And there will always be people out there trying to ruin someone else so they can make the profits and not the other guy. Sadly, It's just part of the world we live in.
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Default Re: Confronting a buyer in person, The Ebay Fantasy.

you can do a lot of damage with someone's name and address, to the point where it isn't worth physically going there for a face to face confrontation. Do you have their phone number too?
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This thread is slowly escalating lol
lol indeed
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Default Re: Confronting a buyer in person, The Ebay Fantasy.

LMFAO



The buyer had opened a return request a couple days ago. I waited till the last day to respond and I sent him a partial refund of $2.50. He obviously declined it.

He then opens up a case against me, calls ebay to escalate it.

I just called them and got the case sided in MY FAVOR!

Here's the kicker........

I HAD A 14 DAY RETURN POLICY ON THE ITEM!

I got eBay to side the case in my favor on a case where he wanted to return the item and I had the 14 day return clearly stated in my listing. It was the 2nd attempt, the first rep said I had to wait and let the process run its course and I'd get a "email regarding their decision"

It says "This case was found in your favor because this item isn't eligible for eBay Buyer Protection. Any feedback left, including detailed seller ratings, will be removed and won't affect your seller performance standing. Note: It could take up to 24 hours for your Seller Dashboard to reflect this decision."

When you click on the listing it SAYS "covered by ebays money back guarantee" The power of communication.



This is testament to eBays lack of awareness on whats going on.

He could do a charge back on his credit card but its only $25 dollars...This is truly priceless.

I got BOTH defects removed and still got his money. And he has my feedback still on his account hahaha

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you can do a lot of damage with someone's name and address, to the point where it isn't worth physically going there for a face to face confrontation. Do you have their phone number too?
I already came to that conclusion myself.



I just want to wait a little so its not so obvious its me. Anyone got ideas??
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I already came to that conclusion myself.



I just want to wait a little so its not so obvious its me. Anyone got ideas??
send him a truckload of dildos

or you can leave it alone
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Default Re: Confronting a buyer in person, The Ebay Fantasy.

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I already came to that conclusion myself.



I just want to wait a little so its not so obvious its me. Anyone got ideas??
Anything negative that happens to that guy will immediately be associated with you.

Start thinking more clearly.

You have had your fun. You have the upper hand too.

BUT to really win, you shelve thinking of revenge for the moment.

I quote to you

Revenge is a better dish served cold.

Apply that and go forwards with selling heaps more

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Anything negative that happens to that guy will immediately be associated with you.

Start thinking more clearly.

You have had your fun. You have the upper hand too.

BUT to really win, you shelve thinking of revenge for the moment.

I quote to you

Revenge is a better dish served cold.

Apply that and go forwards with selling heaps more

Point taken.

I'm running off zero sleep and when I posted that I was very happy to say the least.
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in person? why waste your time and petrol....

you have their name, number and address - what more do you need for a little fun...

actually after the neg was removed, you could have just cancelled and not sent it out...seeing as you 'knew he was trouble when he walked in'...

I had a nasty buyer and I saved my chicken roast dinner leftovers in the garage til they smelled bad, then gift wrapped them and posted to said imbecile...and for a month, I laughed so hard my chest hurt, whenever I thought of the look on their face....
Master, how can I send this package without being tracked back to me?
Do I need to hire someone in another country?
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Master, how can I send this package without being tracked back to me?
Do I need to hire someone in another country?
master has a reply for grasshopper......

master sends package from post office and pays cash and does it out of area and after some time has passed.........time is not an issue, as time is needed for masters roast chicken bones to fester in masters garage......
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