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[Roscoe]

Originally Posted by oompaloompa

I believe affairs are within the womans control.

Not true. As I stated before, under Normal circumstances that's true. However, most affairs happen post trama situation. Job loss, death in family, financial issues, depression, medical issues, parents dying etc... people fail to protect their most vulnerable weakness.

Most people (unless SA-Sexual Addict) do not intentionally cause an affair to happen.

I hold a particular dislike for women (single or otherwise) who go with married men.

The same goes for Men also.

Men are led more by their trouser area, women think more manipulatively and it may be that she wanted to get this affair guy for herself, but he did not want to or had ties and could not go off with her.

It's true, most men think with the wrong head. However, in todays society and all these dating/sexual hookup sites it's getting very close to women catching up with men.

A woman will have an affair if she is unhappy with the status quo in her relationship.

It's way more complicated than that.

I often see one-sided views of these things from one party or other and their family/friends you never see whole truth that way.

They are not married and it was in earlier stages, so I think it is recoverable but it will rear its head with reminders and distrust from now on...

Whether your married or not is irrelevant, affairs are affairs. It is no less devastating to his brother. It simply makes it easier to walk away in most cases.

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