I've bought stealth accounts on this forum with female names. I had to call once an I did it..in my own voice. They didn't say or you can try pronouncing as if it's middle eastern...mah-reen. I don't know, just spit balling.
Ebay can't question your "sexual orientation" based on your Name, it's actually illegal. So if your account name is "Norma" you call in as "Norma".....not a problem.