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Anyone here a sugar daddy?
 

I signed up for seeking.com. A few years ago I dated a girl(alot younger then me) who told me she started seeing a few guys from seeking and all the fun she was having. That got me interested....

Lately my buddies dont go out anymore and I dont have much of a social group anymore so I figured now is a good time. I am only 36 but I find younger girls much more attractive. I cant stand anyone my age. I dont want anything serious so I figured WTH.

Has anyone put their toes in?

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Looked at that site, it says:

What's a Sugar Daddy?
Successful men and women who know what they want. They’re driven, and enjoy attractive company by their side. Money isn’t an issue, thus they are generous when it comes to supporting a Sugar Baby.

I assume you have some extra $$ laying around and want to attract a gold digger?

Have you truly given any thoughts about this?

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I don't think they understand the term they used lol

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A rose by any other name is still a rose

Much like a sugar baby, no matter how you dress it up, is still a.... you can work it out i'm sure.

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What does this have to do with stealth?

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This is the "everything else" section. Calm down, Nancy!

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Sugar daddys are stupid as ****. They spend a fortune on young amateur women.

With that kind of money you could get professional escorts with a lot of specialties :dance:

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When I was 33-36 I only would date woman in their early and mid 20s. It was fun but it was also not very fulfilling. After a few weeks or months, what the heck do you talk about with someone with so little life experience?

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Typo?

You must have meant "early and mid 20s"

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Yup......I will edit now

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The escorts I talked about charge 500-700 $ an hour and they fulfill orders far better than Amazon does :-) LOL

So if a sugar daddy spends an average of 3000$ a month on a girl, they could get a far better deal with hookers, but I guess it all comes down to personal preferences.

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lol i wish

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It is a terrible idea. Are you into being hustled, played and used? Woman do not respect a guy who caters to them quickly, just like we don't respect a woman who gives it up quickly. Have you honestly ever had fun with someone who does not respect you? Your sugar baby will have more respect for the homeless dude in the cardboard box than you.

Not exactly sure how you think it will play out. If you think one will get to like you, you will have a lot of fun together. or at a minimum you will get laid frequently, you would be wrong. She will look at you as a piggy bank and her job will be to get the most out of you while doing the bare minimum. You will be the horse and she will be the cowboy with a carrot on a stick. She will be doing it with at least 5 other dudes too.

Sites like that attract the lowest common denominator. Sure you will find some attractive woman on them but they will be low EQ and often low IQ. They will be mostly prostitutes, strippers, wannabe actresses and instagram models, and just the lazy entitled low-lifes that don't want to work.

Instead take that money and spend it on yourself. Buy things that make you happy. Buy things that you can show off. Buy yourself a nice car but make sure it matches your personality. Don't do it for others. Buy yourself some nice clothes for your everyday use. Again you want it to match your personality yet there needs to be consensus that it compliments you. If you look good in a nike tee and joggers than that is as good as an Armani suit.

Do things that make you feel at peace and confident. Take up sports and hobbies that you love and are good at. Fix all the little things about yourself that you don't like and learn to embrace the things you cannot change. Go on adventures, experience new things and travel. Live your best life.

Once you are at your happiest and most confident, you will be the most attractive you can be to woman. Go to any club or bar and you will be able to meet those 20 somethings that you want. They will want you also but for you, not for your money. Woman are only ever enjoyable when they want you, not when they want something from you.

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Im waiting for a sugar mommy personally :p

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Agree with everything Mogul says.

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I had one. Every young man should experience it but they are bat **** crazy lol. run as fast as you can.

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Bat **** crazy = good in bed! :bounce:

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not really. except they have no problem being your cum bucket. they are most likely clean because they dont mess around and cant get pregnant as easy. that was the best part lol.

How old are you? Go find one. You'll learn alot. They are super straight to the point and dont play any games. I mean they do, but its different. It is much more thrilling because an older woman knows how to get into your head. You will come out a better man. And of course a real sugar momma has self earned money so it motivates you.

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I am. Trying not to be

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OP if you like dating women much younger then you could move to a poorer part of the world where they don't really care about so much about age gaps.

I know guys who have "Sponsored" before. In Eastern Europe that can be from as little as $200 a month for a villager girl, or upwards of $1000 a month for a hot one. There are adverts online where girls openly advertise themselves. Some of them might take Paypal :lol:

I don't know the ins and outs of such an arrangement though

36yrs old is a prime age in Eastern Europe for a man without sponsoring, you can easily get 21yr olds if you are in shape and are not a weirdo.

Very much agree with what Futuremogol wrote, apart from the last sentence hehe :)

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I met 3 girls off there. On all of them when they brought up money once they met me I said that the first meeting should be just to see if we're interested and then we go from there (i told them in msgs that i'd pay 1k a week.. i never intended to do that lol), so I didn't pay up front. I successfully brought all 3 back to my apartment trying to **** them. I ****ed one and hung out with her 3 times and gave her $300 before I got sick of her and told her to piss off. One acted weird when I started kissing her so I didn't push it any further and I didn't bother inviting her back. The third didn't look anywhere near as good as her photos so I wasn't that enthused and never tried anything or contacted her again. With all 3 I made sure to audio record the entire encounter with my phone, when it comes to money and modern women you can't underestimate the risks of false rape accusations.

All 3 girls were 'weird' in a sense. A site like that isn't going to attract normal girls. They were all whores and I did not enjoy their company and I could not be bothered continuing to go through the whole process just to try and get a load off. Effort to reward ratio wasn't worth it.

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Go to a third world country. It will cost you a fraction of the price you will spend in the west.

And you never know, you may meet the one and marry her even !

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Smart planning :)

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And he's making America GREAT! :FF:

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So, you lied about how much you were going to pay each week but expect the women to be up front with you ? LOL Okaaay

Go on Grindr or some other hook-up site and you'll have better luck.

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i never said i expected anything? just tried to get sex. they're looking to exploit men for money, i was looking to exploit them for sex. it's a game and i played it. they began the exploitation circus, not me.. :noidea:

and i barely get any matches on tinder. you have to be an 8/10+ male minimum nowadays to play on tinder without a lot of sweat and bull****... and the girls are not any better on there anyways. i had more luck on SA than tinder so you're just completely wrong there.

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Sugar daddy is what the middle classes in the UK refer to as prostitutes. I guess psychologically it allows them to differentiate what they're doing.

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This is an interesting read "The Hebrew Hammer" lol

https://observer.com/2013/03/the-hebrew-hammer/

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Lady killer super-sexy orthodox jew sleeping with every woman in NYC. I think this article is full of s**t.

https://secure.i.telegraph.co.uk/mul...n_1826929c.jpg

:rolleyes:

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Growing up in a different society,I have seen many cases where a man has a wife and more than one mistresses.
Each one will give him children and he has the means to support them all,men of means are much sought after ,man makes money,woman makes money by meeting man who can afford them,it is as old as human civilisation.
what I dont understand is how can these men afford so many dependents?
Some of them,my parents know them,some have children of my age and we go to the same school.
In some cases,when money runs out,the woman will leave for greener pasture,ditched the children and marry a younger man,ending varies,some men like a woman who knows how to please and the woman is grateful to find a man willing to support her,but her reputation follows her .
Children can be discriminated too.

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married women after having too many children lose their looks and figures,naturally men look for a younger woman who can cater to him ,or they dont have to look,women will find them !
You dont see him on thanksgiving or Xmas,you know he will never marry you,but if you can put up with him,why not.a paycheck is a paycheck,you can take it to the grocery store.
Trying taking LOVE to the store and see how much can you buy with it?

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Is this the way all guys think? or just some of them, like you lot....

good women do not try and exploit you, stick to those.

Would you like your daughters treated this way, stuff like when they have kids they end up looking like cr ap?

All the women I know make an effort to look good. There are certain limitations when youth passes, but do you think older guys look any better, get over yourselves....

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I see more women letting themselves go after having too many kids,it could be age,no time or interest to exercise,hubby dont pay them much attention,or they just lose interest in men,women do ten t o gain weight than men.

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Sugar daddy is like buddies... You have good vibes with each other and you treated him or her nice...

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I'm not a suggar daddy, but i have a friend who was dating with a sugar daddy. She says it was fun, because they had very fun time. She traveled a lot and she had a lot of presents.

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Apparently seeking.com's PR team has decided to make an appearance.

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So long as the payments keep going, the "benefits" will continue. In short, it's just a type of business relationship, nothing more.

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some daddies can be rather abusive.

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You know when you go to a sugar daddy website that it is someone looking for another person to pay them monthly, to help support them. How is that exploitation? Seems like a financial arrangement that you knowingly enter.
You flat out lied to them about what you would be willing to pay and then expected them to be honest with you.

It all depends on what you are looking for. Are you looking just for sex or do you want a relationship too? If it's just sex, you could pay for it with a lot less hassle. No interest in a relationship at all?

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Women are looking to use their sexuality as a way to exploit men for money. You're only excusing this because you are also a woman who wants the possibility of using the same power of profiteering if you ever need it. It is no different to a Roman grain speculator holding back the grain and then selling it at an inflated price because it is a necessity. Don't try and be a disingenous little **** and try to act like it is just a wee simple financial transaction.

Men need women. Women know this. Instead of entering in genuine relationships some of them want to use their power to exploit and profit. It is a scam and the moment they attempt it they don't deserve respect, truth, or anything else. This is why prostitutes are regarded as the lowest scum in the world.

Before modern women, almost every man was in a relationship. This is because they couldn't exploit men, they were the ones dependent on men. Today all women do is look to exploit men, whether that is through divorce laws, outright whoredom on SA, dating and relationship 'benefits' that are all one-sided and all the minor social expectations that all benefit her. There is no 'genuine relationship' for a man today, most men just tolerate these little things because it is better than being alone.