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Hello guys,

I know there are so many articles about how to deal with stress on the Internet but all of them are the same to be honest and I don't feel like "breathe deeply" would help me that much. I need something more like long-distance coping with stress. Should I take yoga? Should I buy a cat? Should I be meeting my friends even more often? Pls tell me your thoughts and your ways, because lately I've been feeling like I'm going crazy, like the stress eats me up.
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Welcome to the forum - all the best as you master stealth

I like physical activity - daily training - and exploring hobbies.
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Intermittent fast eat your daily calorie allowance within a 6 hour window.

Cardiovascular activity in the morning on an empty stomach.

Drink green tea

Listen to music

Close your eyes and meditate thinking about nothing but black space

Go out for a walk

Get a cat

Get in the shower when you are feeling anxiety, panic and blast yourself with cold water for 30 seconds. That will automatically divert your attention and adrenaline will kick in.

Those are the best natural methods of reducing stress quickly.
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Sex atleast 3 times a day.

buy a motorcycle.....

go to the gun range and start rapid fire shooting at targets.......
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Sex atleast 3 times a day.
That's nonsense. You must not be practicing what you're preaching. Try it for a few weeks and you'll find yourself even more stressed than when you began. Not for "#nofap" reasons, but because you've been spending all day in bed having sex instead of focusing on your business.

When I have sex there's no stress relief and I'm actually a lot less motivated to do any work afterwards.
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Another thing that works for me is installing cheap inexpensive ambient / mood lighting around the house. Those LED strips that connect to a USB port. Set it to RGB colour / FADE option. Keep all the other lights in the house dimly lit.

Just seeing lights change colors keeps me calm. Add some jazz, minimal or house music playing on low volume in the background. Bliss.
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why dont yu tell us what is the cause of your stress .
Money,love,neighbor,tax,in law?health?
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the only way to cope with stress is to find what is causing stress and get rid of it.
all that talk about meditation,soothing light,long walk etc are all bull****.
Unless yu meditate your problem and find a solution,
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I bought a sailboat for stress release, come to find out its more stress than I thought.
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Mountain biking helped me a lot... Except when I broke my collar bone lol.
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Sex at least once a day and hearing the Cha ching! on my phone keep me stress free.
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Sex at least once a day and hearing the Cha ching! on my phone keep me stress free.
If you like that Cha Ching sound on your phone, you are not selling enought

My brother had that back in 2013 ramped up his sales to 40-50K a month and it got old quick!
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That's on the main account. I sell a lot of one offs. I don't have a lot of multiple quantity listings. I sell enough to keep me busy as I can handle and pay all of my bills.
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When I feel stressed everyday I usually just go around the entire neighborhood and destroy people's cars just go look for easy targets that are not near cameras cops won't do anything but give a Police report for insurance purposes

One time I saw this nice Black Dodge Challenger at the Mall and I keyed the crap out of the entire car and waited for the owner to come out so I can start laughing.
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What really made my day was when I Saw a black guy in the middle of the street trying to collect money for the church.

I told him hey I have money to donate while I was sitting in my car as he got closer to my window I threw the change several cars down and told him to go fetch.

Hahahaha

I enjoy seeing homeless people hold up signs and what I do is throw coins at their face


Take a sh1t and put it in a Ziploc bag get a paintbrush and brush the bottom part of the car door handles with sh1t.

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For sure, money troubles and wife/gf drama must be at the top of the list of stressful things in life for many.

Another thing is having some significant medical issue (i.e. cancer) to deal with.

Other items on the list include a crappy job/boss, dealing with a bad neighbor, barking dog, or other despicable people.

Sometimes the best thing to do to detox is simply get away from people entirely and get the hell out of town.

Years ago I worked in the crazy tech world of what is the San Francisco Bay Area, or "Silicon Valley". The money was great, but the job related stress was awful. Adding to this some of the moronic people I had to work with, or stupid customers didn't help much. On my days off I would get in the car and take looooong ass drives, often hundreds of miles to places remote like the Sierra mountains, California deserts, or ghost towns in Nevada. I would just walk around and do nothing. It was very relaxing, and helped get my mind right. For me, being in a really remote place with no people around was therapy.
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stress is caused by a problem you cannot resolved,it does not matter where you go,the only way is to identify what causes the stress and get rid of it.
easy said than done,if it has to do with your paycheck.
BTW,money does solve most but not all problems,I emphasize the word 'MOST'
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stress is caused by a problem you cannot resolved,it does not matter where you go,the only way is to identify what causes the stress and get rid of it.
easy said than done,if it has to do with your paycheck.
BTW,money does solve most but not all problems,I emphasize the word 'MOST'

I have a lot of money....everyday i still have mental problems. I honestly hate my life.

even with 200k in cash cant even afford a nice fvcking house in a good neighborhood to buy outright.......

buy the time I ever reach 400-500k in cash.....i bet the houses I intially looked at will be out of my reach again because of inflation.

makes you realize that money is worthless.....

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I have a lot of money....everyday i still have mental problems. I honestly hate my life.

even with 200k in cash cant even afford a nice fvcking house in a good neighborhood to buy outright.......

buy the time I ever reach 400-500k in cash.....i bet the houses I intially looked at will be out of my reach again because of inflation.

makes you realize that money is worthless.....
This reminds me of living in California where people making "only" $100,000 /yr can barely survive.

Take San Jose, CA as an example: The median home price is over $1.2 Million, and rents for a 2br 2ba condo/apartment are well over $4,000 /mo. San Francisco is even more insane.

I have a buddy working at Google pulling down about $190k base salary as a developer. He is making his $7,500 /mo house payments and $12k /year property taxes. Add to this food, gas, insurance, etc and you barely have anything left over.
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That's nonsense. You must not be practicing what you're preaching. Try it for a few weeks and you'll find yourself even more stressed than when you began. Not for "#nofap" reasons, but because you've been spending all day in bed having sex instead of focusing on your business.

When I have sex there's no stress relief and I'm actually a lot less motivated to do any work afterwards.
your penis must not be working, i have a really big p0rn collection that I downloaded........i touch myself atleast several times a day....to my custom made s3x tapes I made with women at my house.......I turn the volume up nice and high and open all the windows so all my neighbors can hear........

for now i am taking a break i ran out of viagra and cialis......i had to take a quick run to empire market to buy some more to get the p0rnstar erection.....

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This reminds me of living in California where people making "only" $100,000 /yr can barely survive.

Take San Jose, CA as an example: The median home price is over $1.2 Million, and rents for a 2br 2ba condo/apartment are well over $4,000 /mo. San Francisco is even more insane.

I have a buddy working at Google pulling down about $190k base salary as a developer. He is making his $7,500 /mo house payments and $12k /year property taxes. Add to this food, gas, insurance, etc and you barely have anything left over.
yeah if you want to be a passive aggressive slave to corporate culture their is always bullsh1t tied to life......

or you can be a rapper in LA making multi-millions.........and being a complete jack4ss in life and yet have it all.........
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I have a lot of money....everyday i still have mental problems. I honestly hate my life.

even with 200k in cash cant even afford a nice fvcking house in a good neighborhood to buy outright.......

buy the time I ever reach 400-500k in cash.....i bet the houses I intially looked at will be out of my reach again because of inflation.

makes you realize that money is worthless.....
then you dont have enough money,go find more money or move to Mexico
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