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Majorly Depressed # When you find out your girlfriends a cheat
 

:( I should be happy as not only yesterday did I get VIP on Aspkin, but today I shot my music video in Blackpool over here in the UK and was a good day.
But I'm pretty down as I got back to a message from my girlfriend I've been with for 7 months, and who the music video is about! Saying 'sorry' we aint working.
So I browse facebook going through her facebook. And find out the same day she dumped me she's with someone else already! And telling them she loves them within a few hours. The world lieing **** springs to mind.
On top of that I got a nasty hate meal from some idiot on fiverr telling me am a rubbish rapper. :( Life sucks. I just feel majorly down but then again am one of these people who's at a university in the country where I no one..and I get down pretty easy..just trying to use my motivation to better my music and studies..but still can't help feeling a twat. :( I got played this kind of shizzle shouldn't happen to brown Pimps :( loool and why am posting this to aspkin? well wanted to get it off my chest..:(

If you are at school, then a relationship should be the last thing on your mind.

True say dog but a mans got needs :thumb::faint:

If she can do that though obviously she wasn't good for you - consider yourself lucky its over to be honest to have escaped from that.

Plenty more fish in the sea mate.

Don't emotional on here your meant to be a rapper and badman keep it real loool

Again, you are at school. There are plenty of girls who I am sure are incredible at doing nothing more than fulfilling needs. This does not get any easier than in a college or university.

If you have needs and your at some University. First at your age you should not have a girlfriend. You should be shagging any and every girl out there. Don't get tied up with some girl only because you gives you some tail here and there. Go out, find any girl out there and nail her until you're exhausted, then move on to the next girl.

Finish your studies, then when you have a nice life and stuff. Go out there and find that girl to settle down with. For maybe do some traveling for some months or years.

I don't know why guys so young have girl friends at such an early age, then get married so young and always wonder if there is something better out there.

And please travel the world, the world is so beautiful to see. It will give you ideas of other cultures and countries. I have been to over 30 countries and it thought me what I wanted in a woman.

And always use protection.

Thanks guys you all made me feel better. To be honest yeah am a rapper Thankful be we got hearts too dog :( aha.
In the words of 2pac' every thug cries'
And yeah she ain't worth it.
The problem I have now is that I've got a Sky TV contract in her name , which shes promised to pay but Sky won't let me cancel for another 9 months.
Its annonyed me, so if she doesn't pay I'm going to be left with the billl, although shes promised to.
And yeah I get you guys. The thing is my university is located in a small town where their isnt very many ethnic minority or young women, so thats kind of a problem. But right now am just trying to get girls from another city.
Hopefully in September when I start my second year at university things will be better as am getting a penthouse apartment in the town centre/area of the little city :) so all the boys nights out and in are going to be wild.
Right now am just focusing on weightlifting, my diet, university and music.
Forget love..oh and am not young am 23 :( half my lifes gone. (Because ill be like 2pac and geft shot at probs 40) for being the first brown major rapper hahahahaha :heh:

I'm a rapper, and haven't been shot at yet, you'll be fine, but if you cannot rap then there's no advice I can give you, lol

ahaha well i think am a okay rapper..am gunna see where it goes..if i dont make it by the time i finish uni..then ill just give it in..

did she get the impression she was only there for one thing, or are you just fronting....if so, can you blame her for moving on and trying to find some more commitment...

few relationships end neatly, particularly at this age....there is usually an overlap, we have all been there...it hurts like hell for a while but it will fade to nothing

I would not like to be your age and dating now...quality not quantity

No mate..she was only there for one thing. She said I was too 'demanding', because I constantly had fiverr gigs, university and music commitments. And although I got her sky, perfume phones etc..I caught her arranged to meet guys when we were together once and she denied it claiming the guy 'sent the wrong message' to her 'by accident'. I let it go..then obviously this happened and the same day we split up..she was within someone else telling him she loves him..my gut tells me she probably had been talking to him for a while..but hey. Life goes on am just tryna move on right now.
Didnt help the fact I got some nasty messages saying am a terrible rapper and suck on Fiverr the same day!

ok, so you were busy and she wanted more time together, and she expressed that....thats difficult for her, but you are not in the wrong for not being able to give it right now, but at same time you have to understand she wanted something different...as long as you are straight with them from the start about your workload. This other guy may just be a stepping stone away, it may not last...

one day when you are married and happy, you will look back and think she did you a favour, because it enabled you to move on and meet the right one (oh and the several hundred others in between)....

oompaloompa is right, it's a blessing in disguise that she left. a lot of rappers have had cheating girlfriends - drake, kanye west, lil wayne, it's nothing to be ashamed of. keep your head up and keep on doing what you do best my man.

The thing is..even though I had work.. I always made time for her, and I did alot of stuff with her and put my work to the side alot (why i made alot less sales this month).
But she didn't appreciate that and just went off with another guy.
I don't think it'll work, and I feel stupid for not seeing it all (espically after the first time i caught her)..but hey. I got to leam and grow.
And thanks goforgold thats a good point

:) THANKS PEOPLE :D you all made me feel better :)..*hugs his aspkin friends*

live n learn bro...live n learn

its life....move on

thanks GTB

I didn't even read what you wrote... but from the thread title.... all i gotta say is been there done that....


Live life with believing everything happens for a reason.... life gets sooooo much easier when you do.... and my gf did the same thing. Yea i was sad and depressed and all that. Until i got a grip and told my self to stop bein a lil b*tch and stop wasting my time on something like that. Month later.... found the greatest girl ever... im so glad this happend...

So yeah.... keep it moving... shes not the only girl out there.

So wrong - maybe 1/3 or 1/4...still young.

It's better you move on - Just keep meeting and greeting and you will find better!

*hugs rsot* thanks:D

how long was you with this bird for if ya dont mind me asking ?

pls dont say 2 weeks lol

7 months GTB

She called me today. Told me that she didn't want me to cut off the sky (even though im paying for it) as her dads bought her an ipad so she wants the internet, tv and telephone at her place. I told her as I'm paying the bill I don't want to pay for anyone else's calls (espically her new mans). Then she hung up. About 1 hour later i got an email from sky (as my blackberrys linked to my email) saying id updated my direct debit details. She told me she'd rung sky and told them i'd left and gone. So they would transfer the sky account to her name, once she wrote to them. So she called me back and told me that then said i had no reason to contact her now and I said until the sky's actually legally out of my name and i have in writing its in your name ill save your number but i won't be contacting you anyway :D and she was like ok no need to be nasty. Anyway got a email 3 hours later from Sky (responding to a email i sent them days ago asking them to cancel the package) saying theyre cancelling it from may 15th. So good luck to her, haha