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Originally Posted by bruceuk I dont have any issues .. thanks ever so much .
I am good friends with my 2 previous mrs.
Things change
People change
And believe it or not sometimes there is no one to blame . Ive been married to my current issue 22 years .
Yes it may end tommorow or maybe it wont.
But what i do know is if you run your life in a decent manner then if you are together or not it does not impact anyone to a degree where they need to seek expert advice. | "I dont have any issues" <<< That's what my ex-wife said. We ALL have issues. It's how we deal with those issues internally that effects our relationships. No one is perfect.
Congratulations, you're one of the 17% who survived a 3rd marriage.
I guarantee your two ex-wives don't have the same opinion you have. My guess is that you took responsiblity for your actions and stopped the issues that were causing problems in the first 2 marriages.
Both sides are always guilty. Decent manner has absolutely nothing to do with affairs. That's a big myth. Read my above post as to why affairs happen.
Please don't take this personally. I can show you stat after stat that proves my point.
I've spent thousands of hours over the last 8 years studying affairs/marriage/relationships.
Here's hoping you and the Mrs stay married forever.
Last edited by Roscoe; 12-29-2012 at 04:40 PM.
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