| |  | | F*** the big merchant portals... a thread for building your own thing My recent suspension, and eventual discovery of this community has further cemented my view that selling thru these big platforms is a terminal experience.
About a year ago I began building my own site, and a construction project on my house, as well as a few other like things got in the way of completion. This banning experience cemented my view that relying on these platforms should not be more than a stepping stone. My site is finished, and most of the products are added. I'm going at it alone, and hopefully can build enough sales to walk away from these corporations for good.
You are, and will always be at their mercy. It reminds me of a documentary I saw once of people in Brazil mining gold, up to their waists in muddy water all day, living to feed their work to an overlord. You're just their peon.
So... let's share thoughts and experiences of your efforts in going it alone commerce.
What works, what are pitfalls, and what can we do to help each other gain independence from these platforms that can destroy our livelihoods at a moments notice.
For me, to start, avoid the turnkey solutions that take a cut of your sales, and don't let you use your own payment providers. |
| vogeltron | 09-21-2016 05:41 AM | Re: F*** the big merchant portals... a thread for building your own thing 90% of the people I have met that went selling on their own websites failed. Depends on product, etc. None the less if you have been and eBay or Amazon seller most the successful website sellers have used that to give a card to buyers for future purchases at lower prices.
Best of luck with what you are doing but eBay and Amazon are king for most products. |
| T1000 | 09-21-2016 06:55 AM | Re: F*** the big merchant portals... a thread for building your own thing @vogeltron. What you say sounds really discouraging. However, I believe the success of your own website will depend on how you go about it. It seems relying only on google organic search visits alone is a bad strategy. You need to actively drive traffic through social media campaigns. Which in a way, still keeps supporting huge corporations |
| Charmed | 09-21-2016 07:06 AM | Re: F*** the big merchant portals... a thread for building your own thing The problem of course is that "going it alone" with your own website isnt really going it alone. Unless we find a way of developing our own payment gateway business at the same time.....because whatever you do you need a way to receive funds and as I have discovered not offering paypal immediately reduces income by 50% at least. |
| cool customer | 09-21-2016 07:12 AM | Re: F*** the big merchant portals... a thread for building your own thing Quote:
Originally Posted by Charmed
(Post 801575)
I have discovered not offering paypal immediately reduces income by 50% at least. | I was asked to remove PP from one of my website previously. Made no difference to sales.
I Have been accepting PP again now on the same website for nearly 3 weeks and whilst plenty of people are paying via PP, sales remain the same.
If people want your product they will pay using whatever means are available in my opinion.
Good luck idds. |
| Charmed | 09-21-2016 07:16 AM | Re: F*** the big merchant portals... a thread for building your own thing Quote:
Originally Posted by cool customer
(Post 801578)
I was asked to remove PP from one of my website previously. Made no difference to sales.
I Have been accepting PP again now on the same website for nearly 3 weeks and whilst plenty of people are paying via PP, sales remain the same.
If people want your product they will pay using whatever means are available in my opinion.
Good luck idds. | Im not sure why you would risk adding it back on then, because trust me I sure as hell wouldnt add it back if it wasnt costing me sales and made no difference whether I had Paypal or not. :( I`d love to hook paypal off.
But its a trust issue, customers trust Paypal and therefore for us certainly it is a bonus.
Dont be surprised if paypal burn you again soon if your using the same domain- I have had that happen several times. |
| cool customer | 09-21-2016 07:22 AM | Re: F*** the big merchant portals... a thread for building your own thing Quote:
Originally Posted by Charmed
(Post 801580)
Im not sure why you would risk adding it back on then, because trust me I sure as hell wouldnt add it back if it wasnt costing me sales and made no difference whether I had Paypal or not. :( I`d love to hook paypal off.
But its a trust issue, customers trust Paypal and therefore for us certainly it is a bonus.
Dont be surprised if paypal burn you again soon if your using the same domain- I have had that happen several times. | Because I only ever used that PP for my website so I have nothing to lose if it does go to sh*t.
I'm also doing it as a test to see if it works since when I asked on here no one could give an answer. Call me Guinea-pig :typing:
You are assuming I added it back on, it is not that simple. New ecommerce platform, no tokens involved etc.... new email address was all it took.
We'll see how it goes. |
| phaz0rz | 09-21-2016 07:33 AM | Re: F*** the big merchant portals... a thread for building your own thing I don't understand all the Paypal/EB bashing...
I can understand maintaining your own ecommerce website while also maintaining accounts on EB/AZ. Putting all of your business on a brand new website all of a sudden without any other online presence sounds like business suicide to me though. Getting traffic is difficult. The most common way I've noticed is for EB/AZ sellers to include links to their own website in orders. How do you plan to get traffic to your site, if you are no longer filling any orders or communicating with any customers? |
| Haidukken | 09-21-2016 07:56 AM | Re: F*** the big merchant portals... a thread for building your own thing In all honesty, you sound like a typical angry customer who is angry at something and can't see past it.
Don't throw the baby out with bath water! Just accept ebay and PP for what they are and work around it.
Both websites/services are just big corporations and they want money- Don't take it personally and just use the loopholes and make it all work for you.
Instead of being butthurt, try to be a parasite that behefits from its host body- Simple as.
Work around their problems, avoid mistakes and try not to take everything personally- These companies did not get big because they are protecting the little fish like yourself. They are big, big companies and they just do their own thing.
Use them to your advantage and build your own empire- Its all about looking at what you are NOT happy with, and how you can learn from it and perhaps find better solutions with your own ideas/websites/online business.
Learn from everywhere and everybody, and then put it to good use and make it work for YOU. |
| Charmed | 09-21-2016 07:59 AM | Re: F*** the big merchant portals... a thread for building your own thing Quote:
Originally Posted by cool customer
(Post 801585)
Because I only ever used that PP for my website so I have nothing to lose if it does go to sh*t.
I'm also doing it as a test to see if it works since when I asked on here no one could give an answer. Call me Guinea-pig :typing:
You are assuming I added it back on, it is not that simple. New ecommerce platform, no tokens involved etc.... new email address was all it took.
We'll see how it goes. | With the same domain or different site? if its different then hopefully all will go well. If its the same site, are you near the eu limit? have you passed the eu limit- this I would be certainly interested to know for sure.
The world needs more guinea pigs :) |
Re: F*** the big merchant portals... a thread for building your own thing Quote:
Originally Posted by cool customer
(Post 801585)
Because I only ever used that PP for my website so I have nothing to lose if it does go to sh*t.
I'm also doing it as a test to see if it works since when I asked on here no one could give an answer. Call me Guinea-pig :typing:
You are assuming I added it back on, it is not that simple. New ecommerce platform, no tokens involved etc.... new email address was all it took.
We'll see how it goes. | This is an interesting experiment. Looking forward to hearing more about it. |
Re: F*** the big merchant portals... a thread for building your own thing Quote:
Originally Posted by phaz0rz
(Post 801587)
I don't understand all the Paypal/EB bashing...
I can understand maintaining your own ecommerce website while also maintaining accounts on EB/AZ. Putting all of your business on a brand new website all of a sudden without any other online presence sounds like business suicide to me though. Getting traffic is difficult. The most common way I've noticed is for EB/AZ sellers to include links to their own website in orders. How do you plan to get traffic to your site, if you are no longer filling any orders or communicating with any customers? | I tend to disagree. 7 to 9 years ago this was true, but there are more channels out there that you have control over than ever before to drive traffic to your site.
Advertising is a mainstay, and seems to get ignored with this idea that EB/AZ are somehow "free". You're paying a premium, and at the same time are being compared to other offers for the same product.
This is new territory for me, but my first pass on it is to take 50% of the fees I am paying today and using it for direct advertising. If I get a reasonable metric from it, say 25% of eqiv revenue, then I can map a trajectory to that which get me to 1:1, or a break even point for revenue between the different platforms.
I'll only benefit if that ratio starts to favor me. It's a task, for sure. But getting kicked around like this gives me the motivation. |
Re: F*** the big merchant portals... a thread for building your own thing Quote:
Originally Posted by Haidukken
(Post 801598)
In all honesty, you sound like a typical angry customer who is angry at something and can't see past it.
Don't throw the baby out with bath water! Just accept ebay and PP for what they are and work around it.
Both websites/services are just big corporations and they want money- Don't take it personally and just use the loopholes and make it all work for you.
Instead of being butthurt, try to be a parasite that behefits from its host body- Simple as.
Work around their problems, avoid mistakes and try not to take everything personally- These companies did not get big because they are protecting the little fish like yourself. They are big, big companies and they just do their own thing.
Use them to your advantage and build your own empire- Its all about looking at what you are NOT happy with, and how you can learn from it and perhaps find better solutions with your own ideas/websites/online business.
Learn from everywhere and everybody, and then put it to good use and make it work for YOU. | I'm not saying any different. I'm not butthurt. And I'm not walking away from them (for now).
What I am saying is that a fruitful sales channel that you have complete control over beats these corporations that can push you around thru raised fees, bans, placement, search results manipulation, etc. |
| astralman | 09-21-2016 09:44 AM | Re: F*** the big merchant portals... a thread for building your own thing Corporations are a big joke most of them talk about helping there clients expand and be fruitfull, bullshake! |
| cool customer | 09-21-2016 09:49 AM | Re: F*** the big merchant portals... a thread for building your own thing Quote:
Originally Posted by Charmed
(Post 801603)
With the same domain or different site? if its different then hopefully all will go well. If its the same site, are you near the eu limit? have you passed the eu limit- this I would be certainly interested to know for sure.
The world needs more guinea pigs :) | It's the same domain. My old website used a token to link the PP account to my website. Since I was asked to remove PP from my site I've still been accepting payments via paypal for off-website sales using an email connected to that domain. For about 2 years.
My new platform just uses an email address to link the 2 so I set up a new email with an email provider (not on my domain) and added that within the ecommerce platform to link to PP express checkout. I'm hoping that is all they see.
I surpassed the EU limit on this PP years ago.
If it doesn't work out, I learn't a lesson and so will everyone on here! |
| jjohnson777 | 09-21-2016 10:56 AM | Re: F*** the big merchant portals... a thread for building your own thing Key is getting people to join your mail list (auto-responder) than email them at least weekly. Most sites offer percentage off or x-dollars off to gt on list. Same thing restaurants do by giving you free item. They than email very often. So if got 100,000 people on list and 1% buy after each email (doubt be that high). Now see why they bribe you to join. Amazon best at this method. They see what you like than customize the offers automatically.
I would suggest using ebay/amazon to build your client base long time before going cold turkey. It not a case of build it they will come. It's a case where you need be one lucky 99.99% that make it and that takes alot of luck, work, money, and using ebay/amazon will increase odds. I seen real big companies use ebay/amazon to promote own site soit must be working. |
Re: F*** the big merchant portals... a thread for building your own thing The great thing about having my own site is the ability to create custom orders and have it look professional, it avoids the paypal invoice, gives users payment choice, and the ability to re-order from that private listing without having to ask again. |
Re: F*** the big merchant portals... a thread for building your own thing Just an update since I launched my site, I have been impressed with it's performance so far. I have had 2 weeks straight now of at least 1 sale every day, which for such a young and hardly advertised site, exceeds my expectations.
I should have done this a long, long time ago. |
| aspkin | 11-14-2016 08:15 AM | Re: F*** the big merchant portals... a thread for building your own thing Quote:
Originally Posted by idds
(Post 811910)
Just an update since I launched my site, I have been impressed with it's performance so far. I have had 2 weeks straight now of at least 1 sale every day, which for such a young and hardly advertised site, exceeds my expectations.
I should have done this a long, long time ago. | Awesome! It does take time and effort to get going but if you stick with it.. it only gets better.. keep at it! I have seen it time and time again... |
| BlackLion | 11-14-2016 10:20 AM | Re: F*** the big merchant portals... a thread for building your own thing Which ways are you advertising your website? If you'd prefer not to say publicly please disregard this message. |
Re: F*** the big merchant portals... a thread for building your own thing Quote:
Originally Posted by BlackLion
(Post 811919)
Which ways are you advertising your website? If you'd prefer not to say publicly please disregard this message. | Adwords mainly. And using the name on all my sales via packing slips. Also offering a discount for mailing list subscriptions.
That's it at the moment.
I'm up to 26 days straight with at least 1 sale. It's being well received.
I think I'm a victim of the belief that Amazon, Ebay etc can't be competed with. This site is showing that it's a false assertion. I've even had 2 customers place phone orders specifically tell me that they wanted to support small businesses and not buy thru these mass portals. |
| BlackLion | 03-24-2017 11:55 PM | Re: F*** the big merchant portals... a thread for building your own thing Any progress with sales via ecommerce? |
Re: F*** the big merchant portals... a thread for building your own thing Yes, I am really impressed at how well the stand along commerce site is doing. It's exceeded my expectations in a pretty big way.
I am really glad I did this and not looking back.
I am about 20% of the way there towards complete independence.
I stand by my original thoughts on the topic, you don't need these big portals to do a good business. Use them to gain independence, and then say goodbye to all of them. |
| BlackLion | 03-27-2017 10:15 AM | Re: F*** the big merchant portals... a thread for building your own thing Thanks for the update! I don't need eb to make a living. I am going to finally start my ecommerce venture(s) soon! |
Re: F*** the big merchant portals... a thread for building your own thing Use Magento if you can. Don't give fees to shopify, etc |
| TN2016 | 03-28-2017 06:04 PM | Re: F*** the big merchant portals... a thread for building your own thing Hi idds,
I was just reading through your thread about starting your own ecommerce site and it hit home as that's something I'm about to venture into myself. I was curious if you had any early setbacks or things to avoid in the first couple months when building out the site and getting things started?
I'm going to continue selling on eBay so this will just be an additional potential revenue stream. But at the same time, I'd eventually like to be able to push people directly to my stand alone site where I don't have to give eBay/PP their cut of the fees. Very interested in hearing from you, but will absolutely understand if you'd like to keep certain strategies to yourself.
All the best,
TN
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| CamaroSS | 03-28-2017 06:52 PM | Re: F*** the big merchant portals... a thread for building your own thing Quote:
Originally Posted by TN2016
(Post 838898)
Hi idds,
I was just reading through your thread about starting your own ecommerce site and it hit home as that's something I'm about to venture into myself. I was curious if you had any early setbacks or things to avoid in the first couple months when building out the site and getting things started?
I'm going to continue selling on eBay so this will just be an additional potential revenue stream. But at the same time, I'd eventually like to be able to push people directly to my stand alone site where I don't have to give eBay/PP their cut of the fees. Very interested in hearing from you, but will absolutely understand if you'd like to keep certain strategies to yourself.
All the best,
TN
***can't send PMs yet but I'll get a few posts in if you'd rather reply there |
This thread is very motivating. Keep us posted on updates please.
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| ebaystealth1974 | 10-18-2017 07:50 PM | Re: F*** the big merchant portals... a thread for building your own thing Quote:
Originally Posted by idds
(Post 838584)
Yes, I am really impressed at how well the stand along commerce site is doing. It's exceeded my expectations in a pretty big way.
I am really glad I did this and not looking back.
I am about 20% of the way there towards complete independence.
I stand by my original thoughts on the topic, you don't need these big portals to do a good business. Use them to gain independence, and then say goodbye to all of them. |
Any updates to this, Idds? Hopefully things are picking up for you! |
| bjc104 | 12-14-2017 01:22 PM | Re: F*** the big merchant portals... a thread for building your own thing I have a few stealth accounts after getting kicked off of ebay years ago. They used to have the featured listing option, for $19 an auction and I used to use that to get first or second page placement, as I had a six figure business with them. I paid them approx. $5000 a month. We had three sites at one time, all legit, and the auctions stopped showing up and the sales started to dwindle. For months I was asking my rep., who claimed to have no idea. Come to find out, ebay had cancelled the program but was still taking sellers money! I paid for months without knowing, and they eventually ended up with a class action lawsuit after so many of us weren't able to cover our fees, and they kicked us all off. They did that for THREE YEARS! Awful. They owe me thousands of dollars..we all got a couple of hundred in the suit and I am still banned for life! The only way to make money is to use ebay as your conduit to get customers for your own business. One sale on ebay should be all a customer does, from then on they should be buying on your site. That is the only way to protect yourself as they are not your friend! You own the customer once they purchase. You can contact them by email and you can put your information in the package. Do they read it? Not necessarily, but I have found a way to give them something that they do read and they do keep! It works and has freed me. I also use an automated mail program to keep in touch with them. I would be happy to talk to anyone about this and help anyone who wants to use my system. They have too much control and they do not care about you or your business. You have to play by the rules of course, but also cover your back. I learned the hard way, but I learned!! Anyone who wants to message me is more than welcome. We can use them the way they use us..... | | All times are GMT -5. The time now is 10:25 PM. | |
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