You usually need 20 dsr (positive feedbacks as a seller) before your chance of getting the 21 day limit is reduced. And, true, once buyer leaves positive feedback, you should see a prompt release.
While I can't really comment on your personal situation (though I wish you all the best in health and family and speedy recovery), if eBay has your REAL personal information and you are in delinquency with them, they can go to collection agency to harrass you with calls. That can affect your credit if you don't bother dealing with them.
Best of luck and of chances. |