I totally agree with you, 100%.
BUT, and this is a BIG but.
It kind of makes sense to force sellers to do even more, if you think about it.
If you, as a seller, get fed up with defects then it's your responsebility to do something to avoid future returns/defects in general and eBay doesn't need to do anything about it, nor does the buyer have any extra work they need to do.
As a service, or a product, provider you are responsible that the other person who pays you is 100% satisfied when they pay for something.
EBay is a sea of ****worms and it doesn't take much to get a ****ty product, try to flip it quickly and when a customer gets the item and is not happy with the product or a quality of the product just shrug and say "Well, you kinda knew what you were buying"
If everybody would get away with it, then eBay would be a HORRIBLE experience as a platform. Can you imagine using eBay without rules and regulations? ****, every singe item that you'd get was either not what you expected or even worse than it is at the moment.
I remember when I first started selling on eBay I had return and after a while I realised how MY actions were causing it. You know, top notch description and photos might take you couple of extra minutes, but it's worth it because a person who then makes the purchase is 100% with what they got.
I used to get around 5 returns a month maybe and most of them were my own "faults" and I felt ****ty because I hate to let people down.
I then really sat down, thought what I was doing and decided to improve what I do first and then start blaming eBay or bellcheese customers.
At the moment I've gone 3 months without a single return or a defect.
I buy quite a lot from eBay and there is nothing worse than a listing that has a generic photo and random description. When the item arrives it a total ****ing ****house of a product and seller can barely speak English. I then spend 3 weeks swapping something out only to receive exactly the same ****ty ass product again.
I understand if you pay peanuts, you get peanuts but sometimes it's a matter of basic honesty- If the stuff that you sell is lower end crap, it should be described as lower end crap and not "Oh this is geat and that is great"
I understand that there are seriously retarded customers out there and I realise that there are some weird cases out there where a buyer probably doesn't even know how to use eBay or makes a fuss over something that's worth cents. I understand all of that because it's part of eBay.
BUT
If my sales are going up, I don't expect MORE returns. I don't personally think returns are "just part of business"
In my eyes, **** returns- I'll do everything in my power NOT to have returns.
I'm sure you can increase your sales AND avoid returns somehow. Perhaps be more honest in your description? Surey that's a big part of why people buy the item and why they might be disappointed if it's not 100% accurate?
Maybe I'm talking out of my ass here and I don't know what category you sell in. Maybe there truly are some categorys where people buy and return just for no reason, but **** it's hard to believe.