I have to agree with GT. Absolutely nothing wrong with telling it as it is. Why sugar coat anything? Especially since most of us should be mature adults. All it does is give a false sense of security or self-dignity, because you got babied instead of someone being real with you. But there are the handful that got babied growing up and will end up being in their 30s expecting to still be babied. Which they may turn out to be a serial killer, rapist, cho-mo, etc..
If you cant take a little constructive criticism, then you'll never succeed. Sometimes its easier for the person on the outside looking in to see things that others may not. Or, you may be thinking you're doing something wrong, but when someone else tells you that your messin up, its easier to accept. Theres always gonna be some flaws or faults. But we learn from those mistakes and should also learn from others mistakes, but most of us (myself included) are a little hard-headed.
I took an Anger Management class when I was in prison. Thats what they teach us. LoL Constructive criticism.. Cognitive thinking.. Having contingency plans..
Last edited by xdirc; 08-11-2011 at 06:54 AM.
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