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Default Won Camcorder - Changed mind, don't want to proceed, what do I tell seller?

I won a camcorder on Ebay but now changed my mind and don't want the item, what do I tell the seller in a nice way that i don't want the camcorder, its an old hdv tape camcorder won at over £200 and my daughter has told me, I could get a 4k camcorder or compact camera at that price
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Default Re: Won Camcorder - Changed mind, don't want to proceed, what do I tell seller?

Just drop the message that bid by mistake plz cancel the order if seller still fail to cancel or decline your request then simply pay and after getting item open return request

You will not loose anything
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Listen to e2free and moving forward, do the research before making the purchase lucy - most of us are sellers here so it's annoying to the seller when the item has been won. Please don't repeat.
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Geeze. Geeze.

Unauthorised payment problem. Now this.

Be caring to the seller, very caring. .

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Default Re: Won Camcorder - Changed mind, don't want to proceed, what do I tell seller?

as to cancel and if they dont, Just dont pay. Dont do the looser move and pay and then return the item and clost the poor seller more time and money.
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Just drop the message that bid by mistake plz cancel the order if seller still fail to cancel or decline your request then simply pay and after getting item open return request

You will not loose anything
The seller is the victim here. Where is their support?

Pffttt.

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Default Re: Won Camcorder - Changed mind, don't want to proceed, what do I tell seller?

Depends - big difference in cancellation pre rather than post despatch hassles/costs for seller though....
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The seller is the victim here. Where is their support?

Pffttt.

Seller don't get support that's the main issue for eBay or Amazon buyers are king

They have millions of sellers and they not bother at all they only care about buyers
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Seller don't get support that's the main issue for eBay or Amazon buyers are king

They have millions of sellers and they not bother at all they only care about buyers
I meant you, in your reply.

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I meant you, in your reply.

Seller is not victim as advised op to send message to seller to cancel the order if seller ignor the off course he deserve this action
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Seller is not victim as advised op to send message to seller to cancel the order if seller ignor the off course he deserve this action
No the seller does not deserve anything other than to get paid. The buyer is a looser in this case and should simply not pay. No need to play games with people. Absolutely nothing happens to bead beat bidders. No reason to screw with sellers.
People like you are what is wrong with ebay and amazon.
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No the seller does not deserve anything other than to get paid. The buyer is a looser in this case and should simply not pay. No need to play games with people. Absolutely nothing happens to bead beat bidders. No reason to screw with sellers.
People like you are what is wrong with ebay and amazon.
Check the op flag he is from uk under distance selling law buyer has 28 days to change his mind and return the item for full refund

Don't speed wrong info if you don't know anything about .uk.law

Batter to learn some research before advising others

I am seller myself and if I use your approach my account will shutdown within months

Sometime buyer send cancellation request even after dispatching the order still have to listen to them and act to cancelling the order

If I or any seller argue with them it's always bad for seller-ve feedback return case or item not as described case then paying return postage and so on
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Check the op flag he is from uk under distance selling law buyer has 28 days to change his mind and return the item for full refund

Don't speed wrong info if you don't know anything about .uk.law

Batter to learn some research before advising others

I am seller myself and if I use your approach my account will shutdown within months

Sometime buyer send cancellation request even after dispatching the order still have to listen to them and act to cancelling the order

If I or any seller argue with them it's always bad for seller-ve feedback return case or item not as described case then paying return postage and so on
Distance Selling Regulations were replaced in the UK in 2014 by the Consumer Contracts Regulations.

Under these regulations, a buyer has the right to cancel an order within 14 days of receipt of the goods. There are some exceptions though.

My advice would have been to politely ask the seller to cancel the order BEFORE they send it as the seller would lose the cost of sending too through no fault of their own. The seller has to refund the basic cost of shipping under this law. You have to pay for the return yourself.
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Don't speed wrong info if you don't know anything about .uk.law
Dude, I am not talking about a law. I am talking about being a good person.
I am saying it is a SHAME for a dead beat buyer to do this. Yes, people like you who pay for things they dont want and return them to cause a seller more time and money are losers.

I never said it was against the law. I am saying DONT be a looser like you keep suggesting. Just dont pay for something if you dont want it.

Learn to read before stating someone ignorant. Every time I read one of your posts you strengthen my assumption of you being a ****ty buyer we all hate.
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Seller is not victim as advised op to send message to seller to cancel the order if seller ignor the off course he deserve this action

You disgust me. It's a shame they let people like you on ebay.

Lucy, as stated several times now, ask if they will cancel the order. If not, just don't pay. And quit bidding on sh*t you don't want.
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Dude, I am not talking about a law. I am talking about being a good person.
I am saying it is a SHAME for a dead beat buyer to do this. Yes, people like you who pay for things they dont want and return them to cause a seller more time and money are losers.

I never said it was against the law. I am saying DONT be a looser like you keep suggesting. Just dont pay for something if you dont want it.

Learn to read before stating someone ignorant. Every time I read one of your posts you strengthen my assumption of you being a ****ty buyer we all hate.
If you were the seller of this item and buyer sent you polite email to cancel the order

What would you Do? Say to buyer *** off and pay for item

Or simply send cancellation request?

If I was in this situation then I simply cancel the order in buyer request

If seller don't cancel even on polite request from buyer then in my opinion he deserve to be treated like this
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Default Re: Won Camcorder - Changed mind, don't want to proceed, what do I tell seller?

Am I missing something, where did Lucy say the seller refused to cancel for them to deserve to be screwed over?
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Am I missing something, where did Lucy say the seller refused to cancel for them to deserve to be screwed over?
All Lucy said was she had a change of mind.

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Is Lucy a scammer now?
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Is Lucy a scammer now?
Nah, Lucy is Lucy...a blonde.

Luckily the seller cancelled the sale

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Is Lucy a scammer now?
Not at all but take a look at other thread
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Not at all but take a look at other thread
That's what made me think she's a scammer lol
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