Honestly I didn't think they really reviewed a dispute even though they claim to review it. I would shoot them a email asking about it but I think they have up to 45 days according to their TOS.
Spoof your number and call them up I would recommend. At least you get to the bottom of it.
If the account is female...well...you know what to do with that voice of yours ha
Ya female account.. HAHAh For bank accounts Ebay paypal and others if they ask about my man voice, or make any kind of speculation then I usually just say I'm transgendered. That usually shuts them up quick