Now, if I want to refund her, but not through PayPal, I can send her a check or money order and ask that she close the dispute. Noting on the check, "final refund amount owed for ----- transaction number" If I understand correctly, once you enter something like that on the check and the payee cashes it, they have no recourse for future demands of additional refund amounts. Of course, I need to know if ebay will be refunding her immediately and then trying to get it out of me through other means, or if they will have to tell her, sorry no funds in this account? 'Cause obviously I don't want her to be double refunded....
She returned the item, and although she is full of crap about the condition and I firmly believe it is simply buyer's remorse, I feel like I would be a thief if I kept the merchandise AND the money. If it were a real simple item to resale I wouldn't care as much, but it isn't and it just pisses me off that people think it is okay to operate that way. Of course on ebay they feel it is okay to operate that way because they encourage the buyer to do whatever in the he-- they want to do.....with no consequences to their actions.
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