my 2 cents
So I've been back on ebay with 1 account successfully for over 2 months now (thanks to all of you!) and I've been running my own websites as well. Now that I'm back on ebay, I've come to realize just how much I love and hate it. Yes, I love it, it's good money (though the fees are ridiculous). But I hate the customers. I hate haggling over a dollar over shipping. I hate the stupid questions. I hate having to drop my prices so low to get people's attention and having heart burn all week.
My websites, yes, I am getting traffic, though it is harder to get them to buy (I'm dealing in high end designer items - yes they are authentic), because there is a trust issue. But when they buy, it's much more rewarding, and there is no haggling, feedback paranoia, suspension paranoia, or waiting and nagging customers to pay for their items.
I have enough stress dealing with my ONE ebay account that is running very smoothly. I can't even imagine running several at once like some of you do.
Although it was a giant heartache getting my original suspension, I have to say that it taught me a LOT about how the web works through this forum. I've learned a LOT about website development and SEO (my husband's website is now #1 on google and I'm #10 for important keywords) thanks to my suspension.
I am getting rid of my inventory of high end stuff on ebay (although perhaps I will sell a few here and there on ebay around holidays and for extra income around birthdays... I have 3 kids!), and opening up a less stressful webstore of nursery decor.
So here is my conclusion. Forget Ebay, get your own website, and use PPC. Your costs will end up the same as ebay fees and you will have a LOT less stress. Ebay can fun when it is treated as a hobby, not a career. :p | 
