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05-24-2011
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I am pretty new to the forum and havent got the experience that a lot of these guys have but you could offer to take the goods to their home. Obviously take someone with you for security. I am sure the petrol cost would be a lot less than the shipping cost. If the buyer is genuine they would probably think this was a nice touch- no need for your personal details to be given.
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#24

05-24-2011
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that is a good suggestion
may not be ideal for some but still its an option,
if it was me i`d want to meet up in a busy place,quick exchange and be gone,
no chit chat,no coffee....OUTA!!!
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I decided to tell them for safety reasons I cannot met anyone as being a woman and not having anyone who can meet at 7 pm at night.
My guess was correct, he got nasty, cursing and sending threats that he would contact ebay and let them know I am not willing to go out of my way to help someone who wants to purchase multiple items etc.
If this idiot gets this nasty and I wont even post some of the words he used then I can imagine what would be said in person.
Not worth the few hundred bucks to deal with a cursing threatening person.
My call was correct, something told me in his messages he would be demanding and forceful so I made the call to say no.
I blocked him before I sent the message but he was able to get one item won so I sent him an invoice and he paid right away and of course the message came right in that he is a big buyer on ebay and blah blah blah and that he expects the item will be packed correctly and shipped out the next day.
Can see a neg coming from this idiot but that is ok, he is also a seller on ebay. ;>
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A neg is better than being murdered by a psycho. Stay safe Sandy, you did the right thing.
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loool,
if he negs you,triple neg him,
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^ Though it's sometimes hard no to, it is best not to get involved with things like this.
No matter how you may approach it.
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Amazing.
As most of us knew this idiot just neg'd me.
Something like.
Hard to work with, won't go out of the way for buyer, wont buy from again.
I am not the type to neg someone back and never have been but this idiot is going to get a few of his own.
He is now sending me 3-4 emails at a time in bold, upper case telling me how much I have just hurt my business as he is a big buyer and will let other in his circle of buyers know not to buy from me.
I checked and the nutcase does not buy much at all.
Buyers are getting worse and worse.
For some reason I am getting hit with buyers now requesting parcel post shipping after they buy something when my listing clearly state I only ship priority mail and only within the US.
I am really glad I did not meet with this guy. One weirdo who is very aggressive, demanding and forceful.
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Why would someone want slow ass parcel post??? Thinking you will give them a discount I guess?
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Hi, this happened to me several time but I have an original account not stealth one but I simply message by buyer we don't do pickup and it's entirely my choice..
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I would gladly buy from him and leave neg's with my 2 accounts with 100+ feedback. What a weirdo.
Just leave a reply on the feedback saying something like: Princess buyer, contact me for the real story!
What a prick!
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yeah,you need to avenge this one!
i hate bullys!!!
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Now I am getting message after message from him because I commented under his nasty little neg.
I usually do not run into many buyers like this but it seems I am more and more all the time.
I guess I am more not liking the demanding and forcefulness from this nut then anything else.
I should have put in the comments.
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Originally Posted by Sandy D I do not meet with pervs on the neighborhood list.  | Bahahaha, I would love to see if eB ay would let that comment stay too. Would be so awesome and definitely damage his reputation.
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...Haha, yeah that would be funny to see if it stayed and put him out of business lol
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i think its time you stood up to him
please give me his email address,pleeeeaaassseee
a few choice words from me and im sure he will keep his mouth shut in future
like i said i hate bullys.....but what i hate more is men who bully wimen:angry:
seems like this was completly uncalled for
p.s im not joking about the email him part!
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^ GTB are you eBatman?
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hahaha na mate hEman
i would gladly email this guy and put him in his place
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^ Yeah, don't get involved personally in these things. NEVER if you are running a business.
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i know bud but it winds me up man!
sandy d,you dont have to put up with this crap from him
like shady says,it is best not to get personal and go to war with him but if this carries on you should do something
i really dont know the best way to deal with this as ive never experinced it myself but there will be something you can do
what a prick!
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My reseller license is a online Internet only license. My apologies!! We hope to provide pick-up service in the future and will inform our buyers per listing at that time.
Thanks for understanding!
I have used this several times and everyone understood...
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