Unpaid Item Cases

[Bunneh]

Recently a buyer had a unpaid item case opened against them for not paying for some of my items, they then decided it would be nice to send me an abusive email, saying how i dont know how selling works etc.. because i didnt email them to tell them this would happen.
Even though i have it stated in ALL my listings, that this will happen.

So now i have 6 buyers who are about to have the same thing happen to them.
To avoid any abuse or negativity i am wanting to email and remind them this is going to happen, but i feel i could get the abuse anyway for harassing them for payment, so this is ending in a catch22 situation?

What to do...what to do

Also, any idea's How to ask for payment when this happens, without sounding rude, or like you are harassing or begging them?

[GrannyT]

Don't bother - I slap a Payment not received on them after 7 days - complain all they like. The deal is I sell and pay listing fee and FVF and they pay for the item they won.

Most pay up pronto. I did have one complain once and I just said if you wanted more time you should have contacted me

Ebay has little tolerance for non paying bidders

[yotano211]

WOW GT your generous, I put my at 4 days open a case and 3 days to close it. And just move on.

If they leave a negative remark just show ebay the nasty email and your feedback will most likely get removed.

[GrannyT]

Yes yotano but I'm a really gentle soul who just wants to help everyone and as you know I am always nice - whereas you . . . . . .