Hey guys! I need some help! I'm really not looking for any pity. I have been selling on Etsy since I can remember. I worked full-time out of college for a few years. I grew my business and as soon as I was making enough to do it full, time I left my job. I continued to grow my business over the years. It is how I take care of my family and pay all of my bills. I sell on other platforms but Etsy has been the highest earner for me.
In the last week I had my account suspended. The ODR has completely ruined me. I sell internationally and literally most cases or bad reviews were items not delivered when I have proof of delivery. I contacted Etsy on every occasion, first warning, second warning, third, they told me not to worry that someone would manually review my account and that they can't take these things off my account even if they are closed in my favor or reviews are updated to 3 stars or more.
Very frustrating to say the least. I started to get worried when my ODR went up after multiple cases of non delivery that showed delivered. A case that said it was never delivered when it was. And a few unhappy customers that changed their reviews when I offered excellent customer service and sent new items.
Recently I was unexpectedly hospitalized due to a seizure. I was in the hospital over a week. And what a joke that I was sick over getting bad reviews and my ODR instead over worrying about my health. Orders piled up, I had a 1-3 day processing time. I had to extend my processing time and message every customer and let them know the situation. Some people actually didn't read apparently and I got another bad review over a late shipment even though I showed Etsy screen shots of message that was sent to the buyer, even the updated processing and shipping time and my message offering to refund them if they couldn't wait.
I was sent home from the hospital. I have OK insurance but nothing great as I am self employed and was not expecting this. I probably need to get surgery as I have a cyst that is taking over 25% of my brain. More MRI's, more appointments and put on medication that I hate. It makes me tired, it makes my brain foggy, it took away all the motivation that I once had that helped me get to where I am to begin with....
My worst nightmare came true and my shop was suspended by Etsy. Literally every bad review I ever got or case was fixed expect for a few in cases of the ODR. But Etsy doesn't care. Did they review my account like they said they would? No! Did they look over any emails that I was sending them after each case closed in my favor or review changed that stayed on my ODR? No! Of course not. They will not respond to any of my messages. Just generic messages from Etsy that I do not care about my customer service and to stop contacting them because they will not respond.
The audacity. I am so mad. And whoever "Beth" is that is emailing me excuse my language but she can go f herself. How can they say these things to me? How can they tell me I don't care about my customer service and I did nothing despite my warnings? Why would I contact them every single time? This ODR has made me sick, literally.
I have bills to pay. I have kids to take care of. I have dipped into my savings. I can't work because of my condition and the fact that I can have seizures at any time and I don't know what to do. They took my whole like away from me in the blink of an eye. I really need to open a stealth account until I get something else going.
I am sorry for the long post I needed to rant. And whoever read this, I APPRECIATE YOU. Please help me. I am desperate. I need to pay my medical bills and my rent and put food on the table. If someone can let me know the steps. I am in the USA. To my understanding I need the below.
--->New bank account (new name and address?) (PO Box?)
--->New IP address (thinking of getting a new laptop or phone?)
--->New WiFi (Starbucks wifi)
--->Do you need a new SS number or can you use your old one?
What am I missing? I can provide my email to chat.