| xenix | 10-28-2018 02:42 PM |
Life lesson
1)Love is a transient feeling. It fades with time and mood.
2)Your problems are gossip and “timepass” for EVERYONE even your bestfriend. The only people who actually care are your parents. No one else. Not even your siblings. Eg. If you fail an exam, your relatives may only sympathize with you, your parents are the ones who will actually face headache and look for solutions.
3)The key to happiness is acceptance. If your girlfriend or boyfriend dumped you or cheated on you, accept it wasn’t meant to be. Accept that someone more worthy is meant to be in your life. Pity them and move on.
4)Bad terrifying breakups are a blessing. You will ONLY realise it after couple of years of having broken up with someone you really loved. Breakups change your whole perspective and make you mature.
5)Sex is a mere act. Its highly overrated and has 0 significance. Its hyped for no reason. Sex has nothing to do with love. Having sex doesn’t guarantee a long lasting relationship. Its just an act.
6)There is nothing wrong. There is nothing right. There are only consequences.
7)Life is about perspective. As i said there s nothing wrong and there s nothing right. Eg. You tell a pornstar having sex is wrong, he or she will laugh at you. You tell a soldier killing people is wrong, he won’t give a s*** about your opinion. Everyone functions as per their own perspective.
8)The main cause of misery in life is having association with negative people.if you are surrounded with positive and like minded people the chances of you being depressed reduces exponentially.
9)Life begins after no contact. If you are dealing with someone toxic(eg. Ex gf/bf)
10)Being friends with an ex who dumped you will only cause more pain. Cause the day they get a new partner,guess what,they will dump you again. That will hurt more.
11)As Conor McGregor says - “theres no talent here. Iam obsessed”. ~~~~~ if you think of it,work for it,dream about it,talk about it, do everything based on that 1 thing you want - the universe will make sure you get it. Feel it in your blood. Without saying , work your ass off towards it.
12)Do not COMMIT to any guy or girl till the age of 24 minimum. Be loyal of course but dont commit. Choices change as you mature.
13)If you are going through a rough patch, keep reiterating to yourself that everything happens for the best and you will grow stronger due to this experience.
14)Time heals EVERYTHING, but only if you let it. So when something bad happens, be optimistic about the future.
15)With most emotional bonds which dont work out. Strange fact: you start off as strangers and you end up being strangers.
Feel free to contribute what you learnt.
Credits : Quora
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