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BlackBerets 12-21-2014 08:35 PM

Male with a female paypal/ebay? Call Disaster?!
 
So I'm a male. My voice over the phone is the manliest thing you can hear. There is no way in hell I would be able to pull off a female voice if I had to contact eBay through the phone... Or vise versa.

The seller who sold me the account gave me a 100% female account.

I'm just wondering if this might end up being a problem....
Do other members on here (with stealth accounts) ever call or get calls from eBay where they HAVE to talk? If so... Should I get a refund and switch to another account? Or am I just being paranoid...

JamesNorth101 12-21-2014 08:40 PM

Re: Male with a female paypal/ebay? Call Disaster?!
 
Really its a lot better to have an account that is in your actual gender. You may well need to contact eBay or PayPal about something in the future.

Bes thing to do is discuss your issue with the seller :thumb:

BlackBerets 12-21-2014 08:53 PM

Re: Male with a female paypal/ebay? Call Disaster?!
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by JamesNorth101 (Post 622687)
Really its a lot better to have an account that is in your actual gender. You may well need to contact eBay or PayPal about something in the future.

Bes thing to do is discuss your issue with the seller :thumb:

Thanks for the confirmation. I'll have to contact @fox20c and tell him about this issue.

BlackBerets 12-21-2014 09:02 PM

Re: Male with a female paypal/ebay? Call Disaster?!
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by JamesNorth101 (Post 622687)
Really its a lot better to have an account that is in your actual gender. You may well need to contact eBay or PayPal about something in the future.

Bes thing to do is discuss your issue with the seller :thumb:

I sent him a PM and hopefully he will have an account he can switch out with mine (that has the same platinum benefits that is). If not then I'm going to be very VERY disappointed with my wasted time :(

john007 12-21-2014 09:15 PM

Re: Male with a female paypal/ebay? Call Disaster?!
 
There's also a software to transform your male to female voice.

pokerpro 12-21-2014 09:15 PM

Re: Male with a female paypal/ebay? Call Disaster?!
 
I'm not going to sugar coat it....that is horrible! However you do it, you need to have a stealth is the same gender as the person that will be talking to them......swap it!

BlackBerets 12-21-2014 09:22 PM

Re: Male with a female paypal/ebay? Call Disaster?!
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by pokerpro (Post 622696)
I'm not going to sugar coat it....that is horrible! However you do it, you need to have a stealth is the same gender as the person that will be talking to them......swap it!

I agree. But the issue has been resolved so whats is done. Hopefully this thread will help out others with this question in the future.

BlackBerets 12-21-2014 09:25 PM

Re: Male with a female paypal/ebay? Call Disaster?!
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by john007 (Post 622695)
There's also a software to transform your male to female voice.

Well then John. That sure is ONE HELL OF A SOLUTION. :doh:

pokerpro 12-21-2014 09:28 PM

Re: Male with a female paypal/ebay? Call Disaster?!
 
if it was life or death yes, but that should not have to be considered.

bjammin 12-21-2014 09:41 PM

Re: Male with a female paypal/ebay? Call Disaster?!
 
I have a paypal account in a females name. I am a male. I had someone buy 2 accounts off me and tried to burn me through paypal after selling Nikes off the 2 accounts and leaving them both with negative balances. I had to call paypal to resolve this, mostly because I was just so pissed that this person was such a low life. I did not disguise my voice. I just called, got a int'l rep as normal, and resolved my issue in about 5 mins. My voice was not an issue. Their accounts they bought got burned plus the one they paid me with.

Anyhow, the int'l ppl don't know if your name is male or female. Maybe you got punched in the throat as a kid and talk like a man now. Maybe you are sick or your parents just hated you since you was born. Most ppl arent gonna ask you why you have a man's voice and a female name. Its like askig a prego girl if she is prego. You just don't do it because she may turn out to just be fat. Now that person feels like an ass. So I doubt your voice will get questioned. But in the future you should still get a same gender account.

champ12 12-21-2014 09:42 PM

Re: Male with a female paypal/ebay? Call Disaster?!
 
I've had this happen to me once, ended up having to call after a MC999, I have a pretty deep voice as well. Talked in my regular voice with no problems and eventually got my account reinstated. It was pretty funny though, the representative I was talking to called me Mr (whatever the last name was on the account, forgot) and immediately apologized and said Ms

BlackBerets 12-21-2014 09:55 PM

Re: Male with a female paypal/ebay? Call Disaster?!
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by bjammin (Post 622704)
I have a paypal account in a females name. I am a male. I had someone buy 2 accounts off me and tried to burn me through paypal after selling Nikes off the 2 accounts and leaving them both with negative balances. I had to call paypal to resolve this, mostly because I was just so pissed that this person was such a low life. I did not disguise my voice. I just called, got a int'l rep as normal, and resolved my issue in about 5 mins. My voice was not an issue. Their accounts they bought got burned plus the one they paid me with.

Anyhow, the int'l ppl don't know if your name is male or female. Maybe you got punched in the throat as a kid and talk like a man now. Maybe you are sick or your parents just hated you since you was born. Most ppl arent gonna ask you why you have a man's voice and a female name. Its like askig a prego girl if she is prego. You just don't do it because she may turn out to just be fat. Now that person feels like an ass. So I doubt your voice will get questioned. But in the future you should still get a same gender account.

I see... But I honestly think it would depend on the Agent you get. Ive had times (myself) when speaking to Customer Service agents that were much more laid back and easygoing then others. Other times I even had a problem with my Sister getting her account started (helped by me over the phone) and the REP would question who I was and if I had permission from the owner to be helping. I understand some people might not run into an issue in regards to this...

But think about it for a second. Will a female be selling mens pants and gun holsters? Would a female have a browsing history of "hot babe posters"? I also want my customers to know a man with EXPERIENCE in firearms/man stuff is selling them their items. I don't want to have my listing be done from a females point of view (yet alone shipped under a females name). There WILL BE men out their (sexist men) that will question my business since I'm registered under a female account (ESPECIALLY IF THE ACCOUNT IS A FEMALE NAME).

And I just simply don't want to cross my fingers when speaking to a rep. I will get nervous and who knows, I might have a mental breakdown. We're talking about a stealth account that I WOULDN'T want to lose! I don't want ANY suspicions what-so-ever and I'm sure other people wouldn't want them as well.

(P.S I don't want to sound sexist, but I would be MUCH more confident myself buying an antique WW2 revolver holster from a "John Malchio", rather then a "Jessica Wang")

emings5 12-21-2014 09:56 PM

Re: Male with a female paypal/ebay? Call Disaster?!
 
You need to talk these things privately with the seller. I dont think you are even allowed to name the sellers name when they did not do anything wrong.

I personally dealt with him multiple times and he has been more than great to me.

Quote:

Originally Posted by BlackBerets (Post 622701)
This seriously makes me question "fox20c" as a seller/merchant on here now.... Why in the hell did he send me an account registered under a female?

One would suspect that he would have at LEAST asked me before sending the account (yet alone my name/profile should be a dead giveaway). I thought that Stealth Account sellers on here would be the people that would understand all the flag possibilities. Yet a rookie like myself noticed this... and he didn't? What would have happened if I ignored this and kept using it until that dreadful future call from ebay? DISASTER.

I'm going to have to receive a solid response from him now to make up for my lost time....

Heck I just noticed that he has only 1 feedback in regards to his sales? I understand people might give the feedback after using the account for a month or two (to be satisfied) and he most likely just started selling recently... But I'm honestly wondering now if I should be taking my business elsewhere... :smash:

I don't want to hate on the man or raise any hostility/mistrust... He did his part on responding to my PM's and sent me the account rather fast after I paid him. He also had a very professional template on his page and his replies showed he was not all talk and meant business. I'm sure he is an excellent seller and doesn't mean no harm with this "error"... But I'm just simply baffled at how this happened to be. I wonder if anyone else has received a different gender account...

Someone should make a sticky in the Marketplace section regarding this. People need to know.


john007 12-21-2014 10:00 PM

Re: Male with a female paypal/ebay? Call Disaster?!
 
he is not allowed you said? he just did...you can't tell him what to do m8...

BlackBerets 12-21-2014 10:00 PM

Re: Male with a female paypal/ebay? Call Disaster?!
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by emings5 (Post 622707)
You need to talk these things privately with the seller. I dont think you are even allowed to name the sellers name when they did not do anything wrong.

I personally dealt with him multiple times and he has been more than great to me.

Like I said, I understand if he is a great seller and I'm sure he hasn't disappointed anyone with his sales... But I just happen to be the one exception (In regards to MY case). In my eyes, and others in this thread, this could end up to be a possible flag. No one should take risks when it comes to this.

pokerpro 12-21-2014 10:09 PM

Re: Male with a female paypal/ebay? Call Disaster?!
 
I agree....if you every had to deal with a US rep, you'd be toast...and personally, i NEVER deal with foreign reps....NEVER...they are robots who have NEVER helped me....screwed me every time......

BlackBerets 12-21-2014 10:17 PM

Re: Male with a female paypal/ebay? Call Disaster?!
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by pokerpro (Post 622714)
I agree....if you every had to deal with a US rep, you'd be toast...and personally, i NEVER deal with foreign reps....NEVER...they are robots who have NEVER helped me....screwed me every time......

Man speaks the truth. Foreign reps RARELY help anyone, regardless of the service/issue. I was stuck for 2 HOURS with a women from India who couldn't tell me I had my ethernet cable in the wrong port. I dropped the phone, called a center near my zipcode, got an American Male who INSTANTLY suggested switching my ethernet cable to a different port. Solved my problem in less then a minute.

:focus:
Anyways, the solution to this thread is fairly simple. If you don't want the headaches/trauma and possible flags... Get/make a same gender account. It will be a much more reasonable choice. And I took this to the forums to get other peoples opinions before I messaged the seller (sellers are all usually busy and tend to reply within 24 hours). If this happened to not be a problem I would have forgotten about it and continued with my stealth life happily (without inconveniencing the seller)... Now I'm glad that I did first ask you fellow members first. Amazing community to be honest. Responses within minutes. I love you guys.

emings5 12-21-2014 10:42 PM

Re: Male with a female paypal/ebay? Call Disaster?!
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by john007 (Post 622709)
he is not allowed you said? he just did...you can't tell him what to do m8...

Of course I cant tell him what to do. Thats not what I meant anyways. But I read both Aspkin's and modrators comments advising forum members to solve these issues directly with the seller and then contact them if they are unable to solve any dispute. I should not have used the word allowed "m8"

yankee 12-21-2014 11:17 PM

Re: Male with a female paypal/ebay? Call Disaster?!
 
Im a dude with a very much so chicks name in real life. It is NEVER an issue on ebay or paypal, etc...

Just be confident when you speak as if IT WAS YOU.

Also, did you express that you are a male when ordering the account? If not, how would fox know?

BlackBerets 12-21-2014 11:41 PM

Re: Male with a female paypal/ebay? Call Disaster?!
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by yankee (Post 622731)
Im a dude with a very much so chicks name in real life. It is NEVER an issue on ebay or paypal, etc...

Just be confident when you speak as if IT WAS YOU.

Also, did you express that you are a male when ordering the account? If not, how would fox know?

The discussion has already come to a conclusion regardless of any ways to "bypass" this issue. I simply do not want this inconvenience. I also explained in the posts above as to why talking to ebay reps ISN'T THE ONLY ISSUE AT HAND. For my stealth account and its goals... I require a male-associated account. The seller has been messaged and I await his response.

pr0wake 12-21-2014 11:50 PM

Re: Male with a female paypal/ebay? Call Disaster?!
 
Unless specifically requested by the customer, I give any mix of male and female names

I have called in on female accounts as a male. They are not allowed to pass judgements based on voice.

next time, please specify at the time of purchase. Its not our duty to know exactly what you are looking for, we would have far too many questions.

yankee 12-21-2014 11:54 PM

Re: Male with a female paypal/ebay? Call Disaster?!
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by BlackBerets (Post 622701)
This seriously makes me question "fox20c" as a seller/merchant on here now.... Why in the hell did he send me an account registered under a female?

One would suspect that he would have at LEAST asked me before sending the account (yet alone my name/profile should be a dead giveaway). I thought that Stealth Account sellers on here would be the people that would understand all the flag possibilities. Yet a rookie like myself noticed this... and he didn't? What would have happened if I ignored this and kept using it until that dreadful future call from ebay? DISASTER.

I'm going to have to receive a solid response from him now to make up for my lost time....

Heck I just noticed that he has only 1 feedback in regards to his sales? I understand people might give the feedback after using the account for a month or two (to be satisfied) and he most likely just started selling recently... But I'm honestly wondering now if I should be taking my business elsewhere... :smash:

I don't want to hate on the man or raise any hostility/mistrust... He did his part on responding to my PM's and sent me the account rather fast after I paid him. He also had a very professional template on his page and his replies showed he was not all talk and meant business. I'm sure he is an excellent seller and doesn't mean no harm with this "error"... But I'm just simply baffled at how this happened to be. I wonder if anyone else has received a different gender account...

Someone should make a sticky in the Marketplace section regarding this. People need to know.

Did you specify you wanted a male names account? If the answer is no, then why the hell would he have made a male account for you?

BlackBerets 12-21-2014 11:56 PM

Re: Male with a female paypal/ebay? Call Disaster?!
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by prowakeskater (Post 622734)
Unless specifically requested by the customer, I give any mix of male and female names

I have called in on female accounts as a male. They are not allowed to pass judgements based on voice.

next time, please specify at the time of purchase. Its not our duty to know exactly what you are looking for, we would have far too many questions.

Point taken. I will make sure to let the sellers know next time. Thanks for the reply.

Also, the issue has been resolved and a new account will be issued to me from the seller. He handled the matter very professionally; explaining along the way as to why the account was female. He gave me a couple of choices including a refund, and in the end made sure that I was satisfied with the results.

Upon receiving my new account I will give full credibility to his excellent customer service. Thanks to everyone for all the replies.

BlackBerets 12-21-2014 11:59 PM

Re: Male with a female paypal/ebay? Call Disaster?!
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by yankee (Post 622735)
Did you specify you wanted a male names account? If the answer is no, then why the hell would he have made a male account for you?

I assumed it was a standard to give out male accounts. Never thought a man could pull off talking to a Rep on a females account. Misunderstandings happen and the forums are the place to debate on and resolve any questions pertaining to them. The issue has been resolved and there is no further need to continue the debate.

yankee 12-22-2014 12:02 AM

Re: Male with a female paypal/ebay? Call Disaster?!
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by BlackBerets (Post 622738)
I assumed it was a standard to give out male accounts. Never thought a man could pull off talking to a Rep on a females account. Misunderstandings happen and the forums are the place to debate on and resolve any questions pertaining to them. The issue has been resolved and there is no further need to continue the debate.

Lots of female stealthers. This forum has some brilliant woman executive members.

unkown5454 12-22-2014 12:59 AM

Re: Male with a female paypal/ebay? Call Disaster?!
 
Assuming everything should be male...you're asking for some controversy with statements like that.

BlackBerets 12-22-2014 01:22 AM

Re: Male with a female paypal/ebay? Call Disaster?!
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by unkown5454 (Post 622754)
Assuming everything should be male...you're asking for some controversy with statements like that.

I wasn't assuming everything should be male. I was assuming that a male looking profile (with a male name on the paypal invoice) would receive a male account. Thought just simply didn't cross my mind I could possibly receive a female account.

You learn from your mistakes. Thats what these forums are for.

GreenBean 12-22-2014 02:00 AM

Re: Male with a female paypal/ebay? Call Disaster?!
 
Point of purchasing accounts is to discuss preferences, imo.

Saves grief.

yankee 12-22-2014 08:48 AM

Re: Male with a female paypal/ebay? Call Disaster?!
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by BlackBerets (Post 622706)
I see... But I honestly think it would depend on the Agent you get. Ive had times (myself) when speaking to Customer Service agents that were much more laid back and easygoing then others. Other times I even had a problem with my Sister getting her account started (helped by me over the phone) and the REP would question who I was and if I had permission from the owner to be helping. I understand some people might not run into an issue in regards to this...

But think about it for a second. Will a female be selling mens pants and gun holsters? Would a female have a browsing history of "hot babe posters"? I also want my customers to know a man with EXPERIENCE in firearms/man stuff is selling them their items. I don't want to have my listing be done from a females point of view (yet alone shipped under a females name). There WILL BE men out their (sexist men) that will question my business since I'm registered under a female account (ESPECIALLY IF THE ACCOUNT IS A FEMALE NAME).

And I just simply don't want to cross my fingers when speaking to a rep. I will get nervous and who knows, I might have a mental breakdown. We're talking about a stealth account that I WOULDN'T want to lose! I don't want ANY suspicions what-so-ever and I'm sure other people wouldn't want them as well.

(P.S I don't want to sound sexist, but I would be MUCH more confident myself buying an antique WW2 revolver holster from a "John Malchio", rather then a "Jessica Wang")

LOL This is Hilarius. I have A LOT of employees working in a 98% male dominated outdoor/hunting industry. You know what, I hire mostly females because they OUTSELL by leaps and bounds when talking to men customers.

They all have stealth names like Jenny, Lola, Lizzy, etc..

Also, with stealth, who knows what the real name is on a paypal account is?
That is why it is stealth....rhetorical. You have to wrap your head around the stealth aspect.

Anyways, I am very glad you got everything sorted out.

J dub 1984 02-26-2015 10:18 PM

Re: Male with a female paypal/ebay? Call Disaster?!
 
If you ever find yourself stuck in this situation make sure to just watch the movie "little nicky" with Adam Sandlar and try talking to them in that voice works everytime!

J dub 1984 03-08-2015 02:55 AM

Re: Male with a female paypal/ebay? Call Disaster?!
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by BlackBerets (Post 622759)
I wasn't assuming everything should be male. I was assuming that a male looking profile (with a male name on the paypal invoice) would receive a male account. Thought just simply didn't cross my mind I could possibly receive a female account.

You learn from your mistakes. Thats what these forums are for.


You should change your handle to G.I. Jane also shave your head. You could also shave down your adam's apple that might help, tell them you suffer from PTS but are still a tru soldato

bluegrass1 12-31-2016 01:47 AM

Re: Male with a female paypal/ebay? Call Disaster?!
 
I say no big deal your a tranny .. everybodys doing it .. its like walking into the movies no ticket stare the ticket guy rite in the eye and pass straight by with just a simple nod .. confident !! Or just got some girl in your life to call and have it on speaker phone so u can help if needed .. ..

GreenBean 12-31-2016 06:20 AM

Re: Male with a female paypal/ebay? Call Disaster?!
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by bluegrass1 (Post 821070)
I say no big deal your a tranny .. everybodys doing it .. its like walking into the movies no ticket stare the ticket guy rite in the eye and pass straight by with just a simple nod .. confident !! Or just got some girl in your life to call and have it on speaker phone so u can help if needed .. ..

Note the date the Thread started.

GI Berets has left for green pastures.

:violin:

bjammin 01-05-2017 02:59 PM

Re: Male with a female paypal/ebay? Call Disaster?!
 
Lol, love the walking dead threads.

But since it is risen, why not! I have called both ebay and paypal with a female name on the account. I am a male. The 3 times I called into paypal with this account was for a disputed transaction against me. They never questioned my voice. Same with ebay when I called in, they never questioned my voice. I do not know if they are not allowed to or why they dont ask. Maybe it is the uncomfortable situation, similar to not knowing if a female is fat or pregnant, you just dont want to ask if you are unsure. :)

alphaversa 02-25-2018 03:32 AM

Re: Male with a female paypal/ebay? Call Disaster?!
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by BlackBerets (Post 622685)
So I'm a male. My voice over the phone is the manliest thing you can hear. There is no way in hell I would be able to pull off a female voice if I had to contact eBay through the phone... Or vise versa.

The seller who sold me the account gave me a 100% female account.

I'm just wondering if this might end up being a problem....
Do other members on here (with stealth accounts) ever call or get calls from eBay where they HAVE to talk? If so... Should I get a refund and switch to another account? Or am I just being paranoid...

In these situations I had my g/f call in and authorize me to talk to the ebay rep. They allow this once she verifies account into. Its all about not sounding like a creep or like your are nervous. If you think you need another rep call back. I recommend waiting an hour tho.

GreenBean 02-25-2018 03:41 AM

Re: Male with a female paypal/ebay? Call Disaster?!
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by alphaversa (Post 903512)
In these situations I had my g/f call in and authorize me to talk to the ebay rep. They allow this once she verifies account into. Its all about not sounding like a creep or like your are nervous. If you think you need another rep call back. I recommend waiting an hour tho.

BlackBerets is MIA 5/12/2015.

Others may take your info on board.

:juggle:

newjerseymax 03-02-2018 03:34 PM

Re: Male with a female paypal/ebay? Call Disaster?!
 
I have had this issue before and I just tell them I am transgender. With all libs going nuts over "hurt feelings" they are too afraid to even confront you about it.

If they do just act like they hurt your feelings and talk to supervisor. Go into the whole "racist, bigot" thing and they will fix your issue super fast.

Been there done that 4real

irahs 03-05-2018 01:30 PM

Re: Male with a female paypal/ebay? Call Disaster?!
 
I solved this issue back in 2014, but you can also just add your name on as trusted contact both for ebay and paypal. works everytime

Gladiator 03-05-2018 02:07 PM

Re: Male with a female paypal/ebay? Call Disaster?!
 
I’ve done the trusted contact role, usually just say I’m a spouse.

ebaystealth1974 03-05-2018 03:39 PM

Re: Male with a female paypal/ebay? Call Disaster?!
 
Regarding the trusted contact, do they ask for any of your information?


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