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Sigh, all I needed was a little something to get going while I work on my future, I thought that there's enough share for everyone in that catagory and we'll play nice... I'm such a naive fool
for thinking that if I play nice, so will people.

You cannot be nice in business. You have to be heartless. You can be ⊗⊗⊗⊗ nice, but if you do it out of a messiah complex, you won't get your good deeds repaid. Not in this life anyway! :noidea:

no, I believe being friendly and kind does have a knock-on effect in life and even in business, a kind word or friendly conversation can put someone else in a good mood to be kinder to others they meet and the same is with the opposite arguement.

OPs situation is different anyway, doesnt know the perpetrators, due to ebays secrecy, its very tough situation and can wreck someones income if targeted.. the only way to fight this is with a legit looking supplier.

In business you have to be heartless. It doesn't mean you don't have to be courteous, polite, educated and well dressed. Appearances are extremely important...

But we all know appearances deceive. I am true of heart to my friends and families, but I've been screwed over way too many times by cyber-people (either eBAY, in a MMO, or whatever) to trust anyone I haven't met, or know.

Well, they succeeded targetting me and wrecking my income for sure. it's painful