Seriously need help - stalker!

[Blackhorse]

I have this woman who is obsessed in making my life hell, godforbid she hasnt found this forum!

What i need is if anyone has any idea HOW she keeps finding me on forums!! As i rarely use the same email, and i have a dynamic ip!! So has she hacked my computer (s)????

It has gotten to the stage i am looking to file a stalking order on the Biatch!

[MadSam]

Do you use the same username? It's possible she has a FUD keylogger or botnet running on you. PM me for the solution.

[Blackhorse]

Nope i never use the same username.

[SaiJin]

I have a real life experience when it comes to stalkers.
If she is in the same country, file a restraining order, you'll get a temporary one, then both f you will be summoned to court to see if that RO can be made permanent.
This is in the USA at least.

If she is international, that's a big issue.

[Blackhorse]

Nah same country and state - it goes back into my past, and she cant get over it that that the mistake i made back then was just that, a mistake, she has only ever met me once but she internet stalks me, as well as pyshically using excuses for driving past my place, and then puts it up on a forum we both use as to what ive been doing. :(

Shes made my life a living hell, and because of that i am on anti depressants and cant function without them.

[SaiJin]

Well, I'm not going to pry into details, but yes, file a temp restraining order, go to your local PD and ask for the victim's dept, so that you can tell them what's happening.

They'll have a questionaire and pshycological quiz before they proceed with the TRO.

Good luck

[Blackhorse]

Thanks Saijin. I will do that first thing in the morning.

[oompaloompa]

It seriously looks like she has downloaded something on to your PC somehow, maybe the police could do some forensics on the computer or call in a private company, especially if you are being made ill by it...

if she had your log in details, wouldnt she be on here though - this forum? If she isnt, then maybe there is another way she is just getting the details of this other forum, is it just one forum?? Need to narrow it down, would changing PC or ISP not stop it?

blackhorse if you need to vent or talk pm me!! I dont have experience of depression, but I can relate to your med issues...

[Burning]

Basically reformat your computer, she might have installed a key logger or a rat on your computer. Since, your computer savy, you probably know what this is......

Reformat it and there is NO way she can stalk you again unless you download something from her.

[Blackhorse]

Not quite that computer savvy. Ive never downloaded anything from her, not on this computer anyway.

[jeffweico]

If I could ask...

Was this an internet transaction gone bad, or something else?

If you don't want to disclose, I understand.

[Blackhorse]

Nup nothing like that. happy to pm you the story - dont want to put it up here incase it comes up on a google search or something if she looks.

[pod]

Originally Posted by oompaloompa

It seriously looks like she has downloaded something on to your PC somehow..

For sure. No way she could find you on forums if you are using different handles.

Originally Posted by Burning

Basically reformat your computer

Absolutely. And after, immediately after, change every single thing you have with a password. And I mean everything!

[Blackhorse]

well on this computer - passwords - easy done. The old computer - wich i dont use except to run the weather site and itunes - i wouldnt have a clue on the passwords lol!!! So either way i guess that one doesnt matter.

If she has put a keylogger or something on this one - wouldnt my net security have picked it up?

[GreenBean]

No it would not. And the more you post, the more chance it has to hit google.


Contact the Federal Police and see if they recommend assistance at their level or refer you to State police. (It might come under both forces).

Dont discuss it further. Some of your posts have given info about yourself. If she is that deranged, she can track you.

[Stigger]

As above, it really depends on how old the logger is, or if she wrote it herself then there is no change of it been triggered, What about your email have you used that

i would try google anything that your think could connect you , see what it brings up

[GreenBean]

@Tiz, me old son, mind what you say even in jest. You'll get worse than that for Chrimbo

[oompaloompa]

Ive got spydoctor and few other things, but doing a search I see there are better downloads, Im looking to galvanize my new netbook, so this is a useful thread.

How to Remove a Keylogger

Security TaskManager - Windows Process Viewer - find and delete Spyware, Trojanern, Keylogger, Adware

Security Task Manager - Free software downloads and software reviews - CNET Download.com

what do you techies think of the free download?

[Blackhorse]

cheeries Oomps, i generally have had no issue with anything downloaded from Cnet - but most things are a trial version.

[GreenBean]

How did you go with the Police?

These matters are for their expertize.

[Blackhorse]

Not much of a go, got the run around a bit as noone understands how someone my age can be worried about a stalker when the majority of it has been online... so tomorrow i try higher up.